A Long, Winding, Often Painful Road
Going through life, growing older… it’s not for wimps. A lot about it is hard. There are all the changes: aging body, health concerns, other people’s perceptions of you, your own perceptions of you… It’s especially difficult if you resist it, fight against it – if you go screaming, kicking or denying that anything has changed at all.
But physical changes are often the easier thing to deal with. Especially if you’re dragging around anger or grievances from the past. And what about the mistakes you’ve made, the screw-ups in your career, finances or in relationships? Or just some stupid thing you did that went really wrong leaving you in a huge mess with a pile of regret, guilt or shame?
Personally, I’ve done it all, and more. I’ve missed opportunities to have made lots more money. I’ve hurt people I care about and love. I’ve neglected or broken relationships beyond repair. I’ve done lots of stupid, painful, heart-rending things in my life.
And fortunately, I’ve been able to learn from it all – to use the ‘bad’ experiences to actually make my life better. To feel happier, more authentic, relaxed, confident and fulfilled. I now know how to transform life’s negatives into positives and emotional pain into wisdom.
You can do it too. I will help.